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I dunno what it is, but maybe it’s the combo of working out and adrenaline in the cold approaches, but it’s pretty cool. Like, I’m starting to build internal validation…taking more chances. Putting myself out there, so to speak. Mark and I know a natural who got into PUA to get even better, and what he said makes sense: “at first, people are going to hate on you for trying to improve yourself. But that’s good, because now it means you’re on their radar, and the reason you’re on your radar is because you -could- possibly surpass them or become cooler than them in some way. Even your best friends don’t tend to like this very much. So, expect lots of shit talking about game, and contradictory bullshit about what’s ‘organic’ and what’s ‘artificial.’ Then, people are going to grudgingly accept your success — maybe they’ll just attribute it to luck or whatever. But eventually, if you keep on with it, they’ll ask you for tips and accept it.’


  • Newly Aloof
on January 22, 2013 at 2:50 pm
Good for you, Young Buck. You know of Game, you’re putting in mileage, and you’re going to the gym. Only a matter of time for you. (I’d suggest some MMA too. When you can choke most dudes out, it will show in your eyes and demeanor, then you won’t have to chase chicks as much since they will sense/smell your badassness)


  • Scray
on January 22, 2013 at 2:54 pm
Is that possible? I mean, I’m 5’4. I have a hard time imagining MMA as this thing that allows a 5’4 man to learn how to choke the shit out of a 6’2 dude.


on January 25, 2013 at 12:55 am
“Is that possible? I mean, I’m 5’4. I have a hard time imagining MMA as this thing that allows a 5’4 man to learn how to choke the shit out of a 6’2 dude.”