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I Date Single Men with Cats & That’s Why I’m Still Single
Why Men are Intimidated by Successful & Independent Women
4 Signs You Fell in Love With Your Hook Up
To Smile or Scream? Millennial Views on Uncircumcised Men
I’ve Been Ghosted by Every Man I’ve Been in a Relationship With
This Is Why Men Always Ghosted
Sex on the First Date: Do Men Think You?re a Slut?
Why is His Dating Profile Still Up?!
You’re Thirsty! 6 Desperate Things Men Do on First Dates
Don’t Know What You Want? You’ll Date Dogs
Snooping in Relationships: Is It Ever OK to Dig Up Dirt?
The Trouble With Men Who Lack Confidence
Love at First Sight: She Had Me at Alabama Slammers
Why Some Single Women Get A Sweet Tooth for Sugar Daddies
My Fiance Cheated and Got Another Woman Pregnant
Confession of a Female Player: How to Play a Man Like A Man
But in analysis afterward or analyzing other people’s reports, it’s 100% honesty because lying/exaggerating doesn’t help the person learn. In Scray’s case I’m also making sure to highlight positives where he may gloss over them or not realize there are positives to take from a situation because as a new guy he’s got a lot of negative thought loops that will make him pass over the little positives of the night and convince him he isn’t making any progress or has no chance at improving and can convince him to give up “I’m just not good at this” style when that’s really not the case when you know what to look for.
This comes from the old-school days where bootcamps realized in the field wasn’t the time to critique guys cause it would just paralyze them, and the tradition of the “end of the night debrief” in a McDonald’s or whatever began where they’d review the night for each guy and offer the advice/critique there.
I’m not saying you’re implying that I’m bullshitting him lol
I just want to make this distinction clear for the haters who DO think that, and think PUAs are delusional “sure she called the cops but that just means I could’ve banged her” types lol. We’re only that way IN the field. ;) We shut it off when it comes to analysis.
Scray says the right things but mainly when he’s in state, and his state is fleeting and easily fucked with right now, which is why I narrow his current sticking points down mainly to internally learning to keep his frame and deal with people fucking with it (so he’s in that good groove more often), and having some pre-made shit that he can fall back on when he’s out of state to try to help him get a foot-hold on it and claw his way into state.
But ya, I 100% stand by anything I wrote. If I say I think he could’ve banged a girl or she secretly wanted him despite it logically seeming like she doesn’t, I mean that. Blowing smoke up his ass won’t help him, and I generally haven’t found that focusing on negatives (“you were a pussy dude, quit being a pussy, be a badass like me”) helps a guy either (unfortunately a lot of guys want to have a dick-measuring contest and just put other guys down instead of helping).
I Date Single Men with Cats & That’s Why I’m Still Single
Why Men are Intimidated by Successful & Independent Women
4 Signs You Fell in Love With Your Hook Up
To Smile or Scream? Millennial Views on Uncircumcised Men
I’ve Been Ghosted by Every Man I’ve Been in a Relationship With
This Is Why Men Always Ghosted
Sex on the First Date: Do Men Think You?re a Slut?
Why is His Dating Profile Still Up?!
You’re Thirsty! 6 Desperate Things Men Do on First Dates
Don’t Know What You Want? You’ll Date Dogs
Snooping in Relationships: Is It Ever OK to Dig Up Dirt?
The Trouble With Men Who Lack Confidence
Love at First Sight: She Had Me at Alabama Slammers
Why Some Single Women Get A Sweet Tooth for Sugar Daddies
My Fiance Cheated and Got Another Woman Pregnant
Confession of a Female Player: How to Play a Man Like A Man
But in analysis afterward or analyzing other people’s reports, it’s 100% honesty because lying/exaggerating doesn’t help the person learn. In Scray’s case I’m also making sure to highlight positives where he may gloss over them or not realize there are positives to take from a situation because as a new guy he’s got a lot of negative thought loops that will make him pass over the little positives of the night and convince him he isn’t making any progress or has no chance at improving and can convince him to give up “I’m just not good at this” style when that’s really not the case when you know what to look for.
This comes from the old-school days where bootcamps realized in the field wasn’t the time to critique guys cause it would just paralyze them, and the tradition of the “end of the night debrief” in a McDonald’s or whatever began where they’d review the night for each guy and offer the advice/critique there.
I’m not saying you’re implying that I’m bullshitting him lol
I just want to make this distinction clear for the haters who DO think that, and think PUAs are delusional “sure she called the cops but that just means I could’ve banged her” types lol. We’re only that way IN the field. ;) We shut it off when it comes to analysis.
Scray says the right things but mainly when he’s in state, and his state is fleeting and easily fucked with right now, which is why I narrow his current sticking points down mainly to internally learning to keep his frame and deal with people fucking with it (so he’s in that good groove more often), and having some pre-made shit that he can fall back on when he’s out of state to try to help him get a foot-hold on it and claw his way into state.
But ya, I 100% stand by anything I wrote. If I say I think he could’ve banged a girl or she secretly wanted him despite it logically seeming like she doesn’t, I mean that. Blowing smoke up his ass won’t help him, and I generally haven’t found that focusing on negatives (“you were a pussy dude, quit being a pussy, be a badass like me”) helps a guy either (unfortunately a lot of guys want to have a dick-measuring contest and just put other guys down instead of helping).