Lust Driving the Bus
How to Salvage a Friendship from a First Date
Respect and Tenderness
6 Signs He Might Think You're "The One"
3 Times to Consider Couples Therapy
5 Fun Alternatives to Couples Therapy to Strengthen Your Relationship
5 Ways to Bring Laughter into Your Relationships
What a Christian Marriage Really Looks Like
A Hot Wife, a Better Life? New Survey Says YES!
When to reveal…
Are You Dating A Sex Addict?
What’s Your Dating Footprint?
How To Get A Girl’s Interest At A Party
Letting Other People Pick You… Not the best idea
You May Be In The “Friend Zone” If…
“Then, I just decide to go in there with fundamentals or something.”
This kind of thing is part of why we have routines and openers…so when you’re feeling out of it, you can just rely on something you’ve used a bunch of times before and often that can jump-start you into a getting back on track. Like when you’re tired and don’t want to go to the gym, but you force yourself to put on your gym clothes anyway, and once those are on well you might as well get your gym bag, and once you have that well you might as well put the gym bag in the car, and once you’ve done that you might as well drive to the gym, and then lift weights, etc.
“(probably should have distracted the obstacles, but fuck it, I need to get INTO the game)”
You, in state and “in the game”, is 1000x more valuable in terms of wingmanship than an out-of-state you just forcing yourself to babysit an obstacle. You might even fuck it up and lose that set for him, and that sucks, but if it gets you in state, then you guys will kill the next set and that’s worth it.
Abundance mentality, you know? There’s more girls. :)
“‘I REALLY LIKE THAT BEANIE.’ said with just that kind of inflection.”
lol this shit always makes me laugh.
“‘that’s fucking disgusting. You’re gross.’”
“‘and with that bag you’re carrying and beanie you kind of look like you’re going to bomb the WTC’”
lol none of this makes any sense logically…but notice that she isn’t being like “wtf fuck off you freak!!” Like ya, it’s awkward, but you’re not going to DIE…so your brain is getting the reference experience of “there’s really no terrible consequence for saying this stupid shit, so really, I can say and do anything, and imagine if I Was actually saying GOOD stuff, shit, let’s try THAT next time, brain!”
You’re getting yourself into state by tanking this set, so it’s fine.
How to Salvage a Friendship from a First Date
Respect and Tenderness
6 Signs He Might Think You're "The One"
3 Times to Consider Couples Therapy
5 Fun Alternatives to Couples Therapy to Strengthen Your Relationship
5 Ways to Bring Laughter into Your Relationships
What a Christian Marriage Really Looks Like
A Hot Wife, a Better Life? New Survey Says YES!
When to reveal…
Are You Dating A Sex Addict?
What’s Your Dating Footprint?
How To Get A Girl’s Interest At A Party
Letting Other People Pick You… Not the best idea
You May Be In The “Friend Zone” If…
“Then, I just decide to go in there with fundamentals or something.”
This kind of thing is part of why we have routines and openers…so when you’re feeling out of it, you can just rely on something you’ve used a bunch of times before and often that can jump-start you into a getting back on track. Like when you’re tired and don’t want to go to the gym, but you force yourself to put on your gym clothes anyway, and once those are on well you might as well get your gym bag, and once you have that well you might as well put the gym bag in the car, and once you’ve done that you might as well drive to the gym, and then lift weights, etc.
“(probably should have distracted the obstacles, but fuck it, I need to get INTO the game)”
You, in state and “in the game”, is 1000x more valuable in terms of wingmanship than an out-of-state you just forcing yourself to babysit an obstacle. You might even fuck it up and lose that set for him, and that sucks, but if it gets you in state, then you guys will kill the next set and that’s worth it.
Abundance mentality, you know? There’s more girls. :)
“‘I REALLY LIKE THAT BEANIE.’ said with just that kind of inflection.”
lol this shit always makes me laugh.
“‘that’s fucking disgusting. You’re gross.’”
“‘and with that bag you’re carrying and beanie you kind of look like you’re going to bomb the WTC’”
lol none of this makes any sense logically…but notice that she isn’t being like “wtf fuck off you freak!!” Like ya, it’s awkward, but you’re not going to DIE…so your brain is getting the reference experience of “there’s really no terrible consequence for saying this stupid shit, so really, I can say and do anything, and imagine if I Was actually saying GOOD stuff, shit, let’s try THAT next time, brain!”
You’re getting yourself into state by tanking this set, so it’s fine.