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January 10, 2012 at 5:05 pm
I am happy that you at least disagree with the broad understanding of seduction – the crap PUAs teach about building attraction.
But since you posted this essay about seduction ;) let me reply in short:
My definition of seduction can be proven.
All the more! Have you ever wondered why no one tried to verify the concept of seduction in the strict sense (after dropping all the PUA bullshit).
Just take to groups of similar guys, and compare their success rates!
Thus, for sexual seduction, the goal would be to take a woman who is attracted to you and get her to conclude that she would have a great deal of pleasure by having sex with you.
Great, again that’s just a theory.
This is no different than getting a customer to conclude that he would find more pleasure in buying the 10K car then he would in the 5K car.
Again, why do you need analogies? You began your post by saying “it can be proven”! Have you heard the saying the if it does not exist in the Internet, it does not exist at all? Not even one study confirming the effectiveness of persuasion techniques against regular pick up strategies, why??
Best Things You Can Do For Your Relationship
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Ask Yourself These Questions Before You Tie The Knot
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January 10, 2012 at 5:05 pm
I am happy that you at least disagree with the broad understanding of seduction – the crap PUAs teach about building attraction.
But since you posted this essay about seduction ;) let me reply in short:
My definition of seduction can be proven.
All the more! Have you ever wondered why no one tried to verify the concept of seduction in the strict sense (after dropping all the PUA bullshit).
Just take to groups of similar guys, and compare their success rates!
Thus, for sexual seduction, the goal would be to take a woman who is attracted to you and get her to conclude that she would have a great deal of pleasure by having sex with you.
Great, again that’s just a theory.
This is no different than getting a customer to conclude that he would find more pleasure in buying the 10K car then he would in the 5K car.
Again, why do you need analogies? You began your post by saying “it can be proven”! Have you heard the saying the if it does not exist in the Internet, it does not exist at all? Not even one study confirming the effectiveness of persuasion techniques against regular pick up strategies, why??